YEAR 2016- Another Year -Make it better

Hi!

NEW YEAR wishes to all my bloggers.

So 2015 has come to an end and 2016 has started !

Everyone would've got his/her own set of joys and woes from 2015.
2015 had been good for many and for the ones who had good year would be skeptical about 2016.

AND whose 2015 had been BAD would be looking to 2016 with great hope.

Do 2015-16 OR 2017 or 14 matter? OR Is it in our mind only?

According to Astro science Year number do matter as per person's numero life numbers BUT looking at past predictions, that predicted doomsday, for a year like 2012 and some year were said to be sure shot world war years, one feels these all things are only fifty percent correct.

What way to chart out for the ensuing year to get wishes come true or to get on the path of wishes & satisfaction?
Whatever you do with your numero life which means number associated with your life like D.O.B and name being changed like adding ee or yy or anything to align your numbers according to the year 2016, one thing is sure- You won't get satisfaction and fulfilling accomplishment in next years unless you enjoy the happiness sharing with the less privileged ones.

Once you share and widen the base of your happiness the spiritual forces will work in, to ensure that you get the best of times because fact is that, with one person many people are associated, in the world that we can't get to know.
And the power that is governing this world always favour toward one who work things that make people believe in the ultimate power.It is easy to say that when I will have this much of money I will help the less privileged this way or that But it is even easier to act even in present circumstances of yours.

Many ways to help those people without them knowing.e.g- when you are bargaining with someone for his labour work, after you've done the bargaining give more money than promised by you after the work.

You will say "why!!, this is sheer waste" ,but that money wasted by you would be felt extra income by that person and would've spent that in a more leisurely manner than regular money with his family And with one person you will get happiness of 3-5 people depending on him.Yes, one cannot fill the pockets of mass poverty but one can be a person whom he may remember as a good customer.

This whole logic may look foolish on a first view but my dear friends- Try it and you will feel the changes that you will feel in your mind and yourself feeling better.

Will be coming out with an entirely new spiritheoratics soon that will make all of us light and better people to live with.

Higher Your "FGTF" to be happy always.

Hi Friends!

We all are now living in a highly scientific & advanced technology times where we have quantified and love to hear about everything on some basis or figures like "what's the BHP", "How much GB", "How much mp(megapixel)"?, "what's the package"? "2G or 3G"?

This quantification has also been awarded to the happiness and most people think that this happiness level is more with being more famous or having more money but it is Not XXXXXXXX
Actually this is where the Subject line of this post that is "FGTF" comes into play.

What is "FGTF"?

FGTF is "Feel Good Trigger Factor"

                                                                                                                  FGTF is " Level of happiness attained on the basis/level of event"-Level of happiness achieved on the smallest of event would mean "Highest FGTF"

Level of event may be as low as reaching office on time despite traffic Or on seeing your child scoring good in small tests Or on meeting friends Or on watching a good movie.

OR As high as getting a new car Or seeing your child stand first among all Or nothing less than a foreign trip.

To elaborate further, suppose you and a colleague of yours were going on an office trip to a foreign destination and a plane mishap occurs and you had to crash land at a place where both of u had to stay for  a week to get back , while the next batch of your colleagues got there at conference and got extra value points in career sheet..

"Would you be happy being saved Or sad having missed the value points in your career sheet"?
So the one who is happy has a high FGTF while one who is sad is having a low FGTF.

This "FGTF" is a relative term and cannot be used isolated because unlike a normal earning man, a poor beggar would be v happy getting a 1000 rs note so he is having higher FGTG but he shall be compared to his' likewise person.

While a "Low FGTF" person can boast that he/she is quite matured &sophisticated but the matter of the fact is that he/she would be missing the joys of life as a whole.
That "low FGTF" person would be happy in very few times like being admired publicly or by sycophants Or when people acknowledge his/her feats and not by achieving feat alone.

So your mind's happiness fuel should be like petrol which ignites easily, on a small good event, like petrol on lightest of fire,whereas the mind's sadness fuel should be like a glass which cannot ignite easily on sad events easily but yes it can hotten on prolonged sadness but wouldn't catch fire. Saying that it wouldn't even hotten would be like asking to be like God!
Make yourself happy in circumstances like first monsoon rain or a good traffic day or an evening with friends and feel every day to be a good day when nothing bad happenend.

If all celebrities had been happy then all would've lived the most and not died by overdose or something unnatural. This doesn't mean that all successful are unhappy but the fact is that, one who takes things in stride what nature is giving is the happiest- Be it a private jet or a private bicycle!

In third world countries getting electricity after power cuts is a moment of joy so in developed world one should find easy triggers like having encountered low traffic and good work day to be  moments of joy.

Don't wait for vastly different things or events to happen for you, to be happy but find the slightest of things to be happy.

Stay Happy and Enjoy Life!

'Tomorrow never Dies, But Today will'

Hi Folks!

The die hard fans of James Bond and others must be acquainted with one of his hit movie"Tomorrow never dies" 
as the name suggests - Life of tomorrow has to be saved today at all costs and that is what Mr Bond is doing in the movie...

But the true essence of the theme must be that tomorrow never dies but today has to and it will!

So while you must be preparing for tomorrow, that must not be at the cost of today's pleasure and enjoyment of life.

So while enmity,hatred and prejudices must be eliminated for better tomorrow, happiness and freedom of thoughts must be ensured for today.

This is just one life, you won't get it again-this theory propels us to bulldoze ourselves over others or prioritize our self over others

BUT this is absolutely flawed,

Whatever you do or whatever good life you live -at the end one would feel that he/she could've lived better. And if the life comes only once then the recent research which spans history of mankind to 50000 years makes this claim absurd, God do not have so many souls to cater to so many years of existence, they have to be reclaimed

Yes it is right to enjoy life to the fullest but in the quest to make it best we forget the beauty of life and the ways to make it. You will always feel a lot better when enjoyment involves more people.
Be a saver and spender too .

So while thinking about aggregating for tomorrow don't forget to live today. Knowing that this is one of many thousand's view which is being shared every now and then, still I felt to share it !

Sun is Shining Always-Giving Shine to Everyone and You!

Daily we wake up seeing a bright Sun above us, no matter we wake up at 5am or at 11am!

We can be at bed in morning OR go out in the park. 

When we go out we experience a nice morning and bright SUN which is ubiquitous(universal to all) and shining happily to you irrespective of whether you have come for the first time in many years or coming daily for the last many years!



Do we have the same compassion for others?

Will our brightness fade if we behave like Sun?

"That fellow is a snob kind"/ "he is an egoist"/ "she is damn caring about others" -

Above feelings come to everyone's mind for any person in his/her circle on the basis of perception one has built over the time for him Or may be the person is actually near to the term described.
In case of any bad happenings to the person we are talking about, these feelings aggravates.

So he/she ignored us or brushed us aside, then we must give him his cup of bad behavior that he deserves?
 Isn't it so and we will feel satisfied as "Yes, here comes my turn and now he will feel the pinch"?

So shall Sun should also do it like that, whenever sparingly or when doctor advises us to go in morning to have a feel of fresh day? 
Should Air make itself more pleasant for the regulars and not us? 
Trees should give more oxygen to the ones who have made it feel it's existence?
Why?
'Because we had been ignoring it for the past many years and now we have come because of our necessity.


Dear fellows, nature shows us the path, to deal with the surroundings although we call ourselves as active living beings!

Yes, it's easier said than done but we may try, build compassion for everyone, when one is in dire straits don't bring sympathy in your mind but empathy for him/her!

Sympathy is just having a kind feeling for other but empathy is experiencing the feeling by putting yourself in that stage!

Difficult, it is really difficult but whenever that stage comes, just think of the Sun and you will get the motivation to be, if not like it then at least near to it.

Don't get yourself embroiled in hatred but if other hates then just move as if that person is not present at all so be happy and cheerful!



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Spiritual Comfort- Click Only the pictures, by your eye's camera !

Hi Friends!

Have you ever noticed that when we are commuting to our office, or just roaming around the city, or going out of station we see many things that come across our eyes. Many things are just seen and ignored BUT most of the good looking things get embedded into the mind, and we think over it again and again.

When we see a person sporting a lavish car or a beautiful place or house , we think and part of our mind, which has an insatiable desire for more & more things, gets active. Our feelings of well being goes down, whatsoever we are.If  this doesnot happen to you then you are blessed with the best of spiritual mind and soul!

The level of feeling down, depend on person to person, it can be just a bit or it could be too high- even a normal passing day could become restless thinking about the pale comparison of your own Honda city or Toyota corolla with a Jaguar /porche/maybach OR a bike with simply a car!

Is it natural to all of us and if yes then what can be done for it? 

Ohh Leave it, it happens, nothing could be done!

Is this your view point? 

Then see the other side!

Have you ever used a camera to take pictures? 

Did the camera clicks and save the images to memory card without your command?

Simply "NO" 

It just see whatever comes in front of the lens and clicks only if we want, otherwise moves over to the new image .

So your camera may have seen umpteen images but would've taken only few images backhome.

Just DO it like that- Make your eyes a camera only!

See whatever comes in front of your lens but donot get engulfed in any of the images' landscape.

What you see is not meant to be stored in your mind and to be given a thought always, but things are to be seen and cherished, that you have got these wonderful lens in form of eyes to see the things.

ONLY when there is involvement of compassion or humanity, one needs to store the image and learn from what has been seen and follow or not follow, whatever is good for him/her. You cannot forget act of violence OR any harsh reality as those images must be secured and not ignored for the betterment of society and nurturing humanity in oneself.

Be Wise and be happy and feel light by moving around and looking to the world through camera of your eyes and not by seeing everything from the harddisks of your mind.

Have a light mood and be Happy with your Life!

Spiritual Comfort- Have your mind's key in your own hand!

Ever wondered-

"What we plan or have in our mind, changes course without our control and we just become mute spectator to the way our good time becomes bad time"?

 "I was going in such a good mood, all mood got spoilt by those sequence of events".This comes to our mind too often. Isn't it?

The situations/surroundings/places don't change but the thoughts in mind changes, and the feelings that were so good become bad. Do we have any control over the chain of events or not?.

Answer is both - 'Yes' and 'No'.

'NO', we don't have any control over the happenings, the events, situations etc ,e.g.suppose you had to visit someone or some place, and you plan well and have ample time to reach and comfortably spend time. But on way you had a brief altercation with a foolish bystander walking carelessly or had a tyre puncture,you became damn angry on the man or the road and the time you had planned got wasted in useless situation that made you feel angry, sad and dejected. Now same set of places you are going from, will seem unenjoyable and boring. So you didn't have control. Isn't it?

Now 'Yes'. Yes you can control the situations, but how?

The same foolish bystander or a tyre puncture or waste of time that you had, can just be given a go by in your mind, and move on.So what does that mean? Although situations are not man made but the situation of your mind can be man made and that man should be 'you'.

We should not let other people have control over our mind, so while others can do or create situation which can make us angry, we have control of our mind if we think seriously. We can strive not to be angry at other's discretion but have control of our anger.

So don't give the key of your mind to others, key should be in your hands. It should be your privelage to be angry or not and other's action should not deviate you, whatever be the case.

Have an open mind, always ready to absorb new/unforeseen situations without access of others to your anger. Whenever others have made you angry just give it a thought.

What an irony, that the person reduces his life by a minute whenever one becomes angry, so because of other's fault we do damage to our own self.

Friends and my Fellow Mankind, Be happy and have your key always with you and not others.

If you find this blog giving you some good insights or feel that it is not sheer waste of time,

please enhance my motivation to write more and divulge my mind, that will provide solace to the grueling lifestyle of all of us. Just mail me at amit.ndh@gmail.com with  subject as " Go on" . That would be enough for me friends.

Spiritual Comfort- Enjoy every aspect and form of life

Hey! What you think, is not actually what it is!

People feel that they have wasted their life doing nothing--

ohhh! I haven't got fame!

neither got extravagant money!

nor big houses!

people not talking about me , I am  nowhere ??

These are the feelings coming to the mind and if achieved something already, then that looks minuscule when compared to the big open world full of riches of all kind!

BUT 

Have you thought, what time actually you have taken of this universe in the present form?

How many years have you passed with saying 'what you say- "doing nothing"?

20..30.....40......60......70.....80......100 OR can one Live more?

This 30/50/80/100 years is what??

If we believe Bible then humans are 6000 years old, and if science, then it says 2.5 million years!!

So what age we have lived or will live is not even a drop in the ocean of mankind.So how you have wasted your life, it is not even a fragment of mankind age.

What you see other having achieved, may have been achieved by you in some earlier times-200/400/1000/ OR 2000 OR 5000 years back so why to remorse?

If we go back 500 years, we come to the time of Martin Luther (born in 1483), and Columbus, who “sailed the ocean blue in 1492.”

If we go back 1000 years, we come to the time of Leif Ericson, Christian explorer, who preached Christ to pagans. (World Book, 1983, vol.6, page 270.)

If we go back 2000 years, we come to the birth of Jesus Christ. Our calendar is dated from His birth.

If we go back 3000 years, we come to the time of David and Solomon; they ruled Israel about 1000 BC.

If we go back 4000 years, we come to the time of Abraham (2000 BC), ancestor of Arabs and Jews.

If we go back 5000 years, we approach the birth year of Noah, who followed God's command to build an Ark to preserve life through the worldwide flood.

And if rebirth is contestable in your mind, then what is the use of getting so much in this life, when it is limited to just 60/70 or 100 years.

Did you notice how the last so many years of your life passed--

Ohhh! I still remember my 3rd standard teacher!!

I remember my 1st day of college!!

I remember our friend group's trip to shimla!!

MyGod it was 10/20 or 30 or 40 years or 50  back but still so vivid memories in my mind!!

Time passes so quickly yaar!!

This is what we say, then the remaining time will pass too..

Enjoy what you have around you- Your family, friends , kids ,trees, sky, dawning day-- everything!Enjoy your health, your mobility and if good wealth then the above things being more fine tuned!

Money will only fine tune the enjoyments but not give core enjoyment!

What you are, is what is important !

Make life better of your own and your own ones!

Whatever money you have
whatever materials you have
whatever health you have
 Be happy with it and have satisfaction!

Be unsatisfied only if you are not enjoying your surroundings!

Saying is easier than done but DO GIVE IT A TRY, atleast you will be better than before!

Have Comfort in mind !